The Process of Progress
Progress is a process, not an event. When we fail to value and recognize this fact, it results in problems such as the following: When we have set unrealistic expectations in the first place that involves a goal that is not reasonable for anyone to achieve or that is not something we have either the willingness, skills or ability to achieve. Examples: Deciding to become an orchestra conductor. However, you have neither the strong interest in music or the skills required, such as reading music Remedy / Positive Attitude: Setting goals that make sense for us; that are well within our interest level and capability When we aim to accomplish a goal without allowing ourselves a "learning curve" or a realistic opportunity to acquire a skill and grow in strengthening it, we set ourselves up for failure. Examples: Failing to recognize that it takes time to learn a new skill may result in giving up ...